Thursday, March 22
OMG,
Some people really just don't get it do they?
If you know you can't get something then why even try for it? Well, we could always debate over the fact that if we try real hard, we'll be able to get it for sure...if there's a will there's a way...blah blah blah, but hello, if it's still staring at you with an NO ENTRY sign,then why even bother trying?
Even when people have advised and discouraged you, you still want to pursue and end up being disappointed. You have to understand you cannot have the best of both worlds. The person up there has given each and every individual what they deserve, so why not just accept it and carry on with your life?
Just because you've suddenly seen it after so long and realised that you've missed it and it's better having that thing than what you're going through, doesn't mean that you will surely get it. Sure you've tried a numerous ways to get it and of course failed at every try, doesn't mean this time around you'll be successful. Enjoy and cherish the things around you than asking for something you'll never ever get. So please don't waste your time. On top of that, don't even try other methods to psycho the thing back to you. It's not going to work.
Stop being all silly and sentimental all over again. People move on, and they don't move on stupidly, so please think before jumping onto any new ideas. Secretly doing things behind your loved ones' back and lying to them isn't going to improve anything either. You've got a new life now so stop being adamant and emotional and start to pick yourself up and do the right thing because the thing you are yearning for is never going to be yours ever and don't let the past memories overwhelm you.
Cheers,
Tunitha
|8:40:00 am|
Friday, March 9
Many people view many things differently. Some see it positively and some well, extremely negatively. In my experiences I have been seeing both sides quite frequently. Being an optimist pays to look at things on a greener patch, and pyschologically, you would feel a whole lot better and cheerful, no matter what storm comes along. But being negative moulds you for the worst, but unrealisingly you also tend to absorb this self-rejected, low moraled sort of aura.
On another note, does the term "Don't judge the book by its cover" really exist? It does in many cases, but then again the arguement would be that the exterior is the vital point for a decision to be made. Say for example, if we want a certain home interior design contractor, do we go through the company's statics and business summary or do we just look at the works the company had done and then choose the contractor? There are some imbeciles who live on this methaphor as their bread and butter. There are just some people who just live on wanting to know how others live on the insides instead of looking at them on a surficial level apart from themselves. Whether their lives are a living hell, or one which they can't live in, they are just too occupied to know how the others live, and on top of that, make their own conclusions and form their own judgements. Just because your life may not be all that rosy and sweet, doesn't mean, there aren't any others who don't live rosy and sweet lives. There are so many families who know how to maintain a proper family relationship and keep their lives happy, instead of any regrets. In my case, I do not have any regrets on the life I had lived before. It is because of my past that I have found the bliss that I am in.
I have wonderful parents whom I have come to appreciate so much now and a wonderful husband whom I am growing to love more and more. We each have our own lives to live, so let us live it. It is quite disturbing to know that there are many others who are so jealous and would just like to see the other person's downfall. Be happy in the life you are in and not condemn, or be nosy in another's affairs.
I have come to realise, that when given an opportunity for someone to use you, they make totally full use of you and in the end you become the idiot. Alot of scenarios have been discovered where the stronger makes use of the weaker on purpose thinking the weaker's dumb and do not know the entire reel! Hello!! People aren't that dumb. There's this saying which I have adopted quite well. "Be smart! Act dumb"
It doesn't take very long for the unfortunates to be revealed of their devious acts. I always believe there's a god up there, and he's given each and everyone what they duly deserve. Be it for good and bad. Going through life, I have realised that there are many character roles I have adorned and yet to adorn. I believe, my life will be nurturing more as I drive along my path.
I penned all these down as I was checking out a blog site.
Till the next post,
Cheers,
Tunitha
|6:41:00 pm|
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