Yeah I know! Well, let's just say I have been family planning....yeah literally...

So I got pregnant and gave birth to my son in Feb 2009, got pregnant again and gave birth to to my daughter in Dec 2009. Yup, 10 months apart. Parenthood is quite fun once you get the hang of things. I do have help of course. I have a part time maid, but I look over most of the cake.

And.......I am now pregnant again. I'm coming to 5 months. Don't really know the sex yet, but actually hoping for a boy. I want to stop after a second boy. It kinda feels complete with 2 boys and a girl. I can then concentrate fully on their development and whatever they need. Not working has it's advantages and disadvantages. Well advantages would be, I get to see and cherish every moment with my kids, and the disadvantage is, sometimes I really get tired and just need a break.

Its not really easy having children and coping mentally. There are of course a lot of stress related issues involved. It's similar to training a pet I guess. Well, whatever it is, a lot and I mean really a lot of patience and tolerance is needed. I am not that sort of mum that doesn't scold or beat the children. I admit, I do. There are times where I think that sometimes, a little reminder of pain is needed to let them know, certain things have to be learnt certain ways and principles have to be maintained.

My kids are now coming to 3 and 2, and 1 thing I have learnt is that, I can't run away from the fact that, no matter how much independence I try to instill in my kids, they still need my security. But as I learn from one kid to another, its tastefully different in the approach of taking care of them. I am now more curious than ever to find out how my third one differs from the other two. It's gonna be a pretty interesting bonding.

I actually come from a family of a two children policy, so me having a third one has raised many many eyebrows. Well, for some perhaps, its pure concern of how will she manage and how will her health be, and for some would be, oh she thinks its easy having so many kids, wait till she stumbles. Yeah. That's the world unfortunately, but hey, life still moves on, and whatever that comes along I take it in my stride and of course I ain't perfect. I do have my breakdowns once in awhile, but hey, who doesn't :)

So alright guys, just wanna say I'm back to blogging. Will try to do more on the regular basis. Actually with kids, there is just so much to write about, but then I would need to clone myself to do the looking after part :P

Ok then,

Cya,

Tunitha

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